I was just on Brian Tracys Blog:

http://www.briantracy.com/blog/

The message here aligns so strongly with my passionate beliefs about the importance of working on our relationships as a foundation to our core happiness. Most importantly, start with yourself, develop that relationship such that you are growing and nurturing the beauty that sits within you. This will in turn allow you to overflow and attract others to you who are in alignment with your soul and core values.

Here is an extract from Brians Blog:

According to psychologist Sidney Jourard, fully 85 percent of your happiness in life will come from your personal relationships. Your interactions and the time that you spend with the people you care about will be the major source of the pleasure, enjoyment and satisfaction that you derive daily. The other 15 percent of your happiness will come from your accomplishments. Unfortunately, many people lose sight of what is truly important, and they allow the tail to wag the dog. They sacrifice their relationships, their major source of happiness, to accomplish more in their careers. But one’s career, at best, can be only a minor source–and a temporary one, at that–of the happiness and satisfaction that everyone wants.